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Tough Love

Posted: April 11, 2021 in Tough Love, Uncategorized

People, I am here to tell you that I don’t lend money out to enable a person to continue to do foolish things. 5 or 20 dollars here to support someone’s bad habit, especially to someone you know. This person might be a good friend or even a family member. At 60 years of age, you should have it together. As I look back over my life with the decisions I made, some good, some bad, I am the one who is living with the outcome of all of them.

This might seem harsh, but because you have pissed away all your years due to not taking advice or making bad decisions, and still in your 50s or 60s making bad decisions, I will not allow your problems to become mine. Not saying I will not help you, but I will only help you if you are headed in the right direction.

If you are 40 and older, and still running men and women, getting drunk, and using people to get by with no job or security in life. You need to stop now. I see people who have pissed their life away and then want to intrude on friends and family for resources to survive. With much love, it hurts to say no to a friend or family member who wants to borrow 5 or 10 dollars. Might not seem like much but giving that person 5 dollars is contributing to what is destroying him or her.

We need to stop giving strength to the devil’s schemes. The devil is out to kill, steal and destroy, and we are supporting that when we give to a person who you know for sure what he or she is doing with it. When you worked all your life and did the right things, you have the God-given right to enjoy the fruits of your labor.

I send this out in Love. Enjoy your life people, you worked for it, you earn it. Don’t let anyone stress you out to the point where you are getting sick. Pray for the person and lead them in the right direction. If they still want to go down the path of destruction, they go alone because it’s a choice they made.

Jesus Be Praised!