This is for those always talking about how they love God, but can not stand others or even hate them by the actions demonstrated to other people, to include family members. The Bible said that you can tell the condition of a tree by its fruit. The tree is you, and the fruit is your actions towards others. Is your fruit ripe or rotten to the core?
1 John 4:20 Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.
It is easy to say we love God when that love does not cost us anything more than weekly attendance at church services. But the real test of our love for God becomes evident in how we treat the people right in front of us—our family members and fellow believers. We cannot truly love God while neglecting to love those who are created in his image. Jesus’ love reveals itself in our compassion, our generosity, and our ability to listen to and help others. When we fix our relation with God and learn to true love him, everything else will fall into place. If you don’t believe me read
Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
We need to stop praying for the relationship between the two to get better, and start praying that they come to know God and either get or fix that relationship. When you fix your relationship with God and truly learn to love him, everyone benefits. It will be impossible to hold on to hate. The Bible said that Love forgives all wrong.
Jesus be Praised!
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