Under Gods Command
Proverbs 21:11-12 When a mocker is punished, the simple gain wisdom; when a wise man is instructed, he gets knowledge. (12) The Righteous One takes note of the house of the wicked and brings the wicked to ruin.
It is usually better to learn from the mistakes of others than from our own. We can do this by observing other people’s lives and listening to their advice. Take counsel from others instead of plunging ahead and learning the hard way
Under Gods command 