Under Gods Command
Proverbs 13:03 He who guards his lips guards his life, but he who speaks rashly will come to ruin.
You have not mastered self-control if you do not control what you say. Words can cut and destroy. James recognized this truth when he stated, “The tongue is a small part of the body but makes great boast”. If you want to be self controlled, begin with your tongue. Stop and think before you react or speak. If you can control this small but powerful member, you can control the rest of your body.
Under Gods command 