Under Gods Command
Proverbs 26:17- Like one who seizes a dog by the ears is a passer-by who meddles in a quarrel not his own.
Seizing the ears of a stray dog is a good way to get bitten, and interfering in arguments is a good way to get hurt. Many times both arguers will turn on the person who interferes. It is best simply to keep out of arguments that are none or your business. If you must become involved, try to wait until the arguers have stopped fighting and cooled off a bit. Then maybe you can help them mend their differences and their relationship.
Under Gods command 