Under Gods Command
Proverbs 10:18 He who conceals his hatred has lying lips, and whoever spreads slander is a fool.

By hating another person you may become a liar or a fool. If you try to conceal your hatred, you end up lying. If you slander the other person and are proven wrong, you are a fool. The only way out is to admit your hateful feelings to God. Ask him to change your heart, to help you love instead of hate.

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  1. Akela Tillmon's avatar Akela Tillmon says:

    Thank you for this 🙏🏾 , I’ve been dealing with a very strange woman . Who is my neighbor, though I don’t hate her. I do admit I absolutely can’t stand her.I don’t even know her and didn’t talk to her since she moved . Around Nov. of 2017, I just picked up on off vibes . From her , my husband was nice and spoke .Though I didn’t , just felt something wasn’t right with this woman. We live in row town homes. That are connected and very old . The walls are thin and the floors are very creaky. Me and my husband wasn’t aware of how thin the walls were until . Our neighbor moved in . One day we we’re being intimate and the woman next door. Was walking around in her room . That was fine we weren’t being loud at all . We have three kids all young teens so we know how to be silent. We talked a little but that wasn’t even loud it was low toned. Then out of nowhere our neighbor walks up to our shared wall and we both heard her .Due to the creaky floors and stood there like literally by our heads . No the bed was not directly on this wall . I couldn’t believe it . She was trying to listen too us . It was creepy and violating . I told my husband right there I want to move my bed from where that wall was. We did and put our T.V on the other side . I did purposely put the T.V in a certain spot. I admit this , I was angry and violated. I did not keep it blasted or anything like that . But I did find it strange soon as we moved away from this wall.

    She literally moved her bed on the shared wall after we moved our bed.Too the point that I could hear her bed squeak . When she would get up and lay down. It was so incredibly weird and odd. I wondered how long has she been listening to us at that point. Then one night , while I was up and my husband was sleeping. I was watching a show .I heard this woman walk up to our shared wall in the spot where our bed was and would started rocking . I initially though she was rocking her grand baby . How did I know this ? It was because of the squeaky floor . You could hear the rocking from it . So I let it go . Now I was creeped out once it happened again and she did this twice or so at nighttime. Ever since it’s been on and off harassment. We moved our T.V in a decent spot and then this strange woman. Moved her bed directly behind our T.V . When she finally had a male friend over. You could hear them having sex on the shared wall .The bed squeaking loudly . I couldn’t understand what was this woman’s problem exactly. Why would she do this and want us to hear it ? We moved our bed for privacy and to not be some kind of disturbance to her. She moves her’s to do the opposite. We dealt with this for two weeks until I snapped. Blasted my T.V as loud as I could when they started and left the room until they stopped and they actual left house.

    They haven’t done this since. But now she goes out of her way to use a sound system she has and blast it in her living room. Off and on or whenever we can heard being in our bedroom. She doesn’t even care that she’s causing a disturbance to the woman on the other side of her house. She plays music too. One time from 3am in the morning all the way up 6am . Disturbing the other neighbors. No one does this here and we don’t do this either. I think this woman has sexual and mental issues. From her bahavior. She also never , talks out loud in her room. Either remember the walls are very thin and we would hear her. But we talk in ours she would walk up to the wall like we can’t hear her. We really just ignore her. It doesn’t be about anything that would be considered private. But it’s still weird, that’s actually why I think she stays quite because of . What she does to us, when she has talked I don’t walk to the wall and stand there. I really don’t care about anything she’s talking about . I put on my headphones or tweak my TV’s volume but not in a rude way. What even stranger a man that used to live next to her. Talked with my husband and said she does the same to him . He actually happy to move because of her. So I realized it wasn’t just me .It was like she just enjoys being strange with the disadvantage of.How these homes were built. Now I haven’t been perfect either me and my husband would sometimes get into arguments that weren’t quite. We aren’t these silent great neighbors. But my kids behave themselves they aren’t loud. We also don’t do this everyday or every other day. We are better than she actually deserves.

    I wrote all this too give more details to my situation. I absolutely loathe and cant stand this woman . If you hear her and see her . You would think she’s this kind sweet sounding female. When I haven’t experienced this from her like her old male neighbor didn’t . She had roommates at one time but they all moved out. Including her own daughter and granddaughter. She’s now alone in this her house and she’s still doing the same things. I’m up to everything with her . I’m tired and fed up and I flipped on her again . Basically told her to come on and talk to me or let’s deal. But the verse basically was a message to me . I’m going to keep myself I already made a fool out of myself. Over all this now I’m recording what she does just in case she tries to falsely accuse me or my family of anything. It’s been horrible and I haven’t reported to the front office of my complex and also have not called the police.The reason , because of half way paying it forward . She didn’t this to us when we’ve had our arguments and unruly times. But I feel like it was taken advantage of. Too the that I will now report depending on how she moves in the next couple of days .If does me fine I’ll tell the on me and about her .

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